Small historical or genealogical societies are wonderful for getting to know more about your relatives' FAN Club. Here's an example on my mother's side of the family in Upstate New York (Scriba farming community established in 1811 in Oswego County).
https://www.familysearch.org/en/wiki/Scriba,_Oswego_County,_New_York_Genealogy
My journey started by reaching out to the Scriba Historical Society on Facebook. Then, I started emailing the society's President (Mary). I really wanted to borrow a copy of Charles D. Young's out of print, two volume books - A Scriba Anthology. I already had attempted Interlibrary Loan and received the Table of Contents. Going low tech, Mary sent them to me via US Mail, and I later returned them the same way.
I also have enjoyed watching videos that this small welcoming group posts:
https://scribahistoricalsociety.org/video/
Success came yesterday. After trying to join a monthly Friday roundtable sharing call via Facebook didn't work last month, I was able to join via ZOOM with the Scriba NY folks in the audience and a Wichita KS man who grew up in Scriba and knew my grandparents.
Tip for working with local societies: Free ZOOM works well - log back if needed. Also, volunteer to help remotely such as I did with some scanning.
"Grandma's Recipes" was the roundtable sharing topic. I brought my copy of the 1982 Oswego County Historical Society Cookbook. The participant from Kansas showed a Scriba Baptist Church cookbook from before I was born. I now literally have some more of my Grandma's recipes for apple cake, doughnuts, wine drop cookies, baked corn, tomato conserve, salmon loaf, and popcorn balls. If only I can find her directions for making homemade cottage cheese. I loved making and eating it with her.



